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So I told this guy I knew that I had herpes cause we were friends and he wanted to have sex. Well he stopped talking to me and I looked the other way. Here it is 3 months later and he's sending me nudes...wth is that?

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Micah

Depends on what you want. But he sounds like a jerk. I'd say cut him off.

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Nightmare7575

He left could not find anybody else and knows you are still there,so he is back. and horny. It depends on what YOU want,if you want to enjoy your sexuality then why not and he knows you have herpes,but also understand he is the best guy [who send a dick pic ? here is my dick how can you resist [lol lol lol] who does that.and he left for three months.

You could also just say,let have sex on my terms, get some tie downs, a blind fold and a vibrator. [lol lol lol] 

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ManagingIllness

If you want to fuck, then fuck. If not, then don't. I really don't think character has much to do with that. If character had a big part to play in whether or not people get laid, then we'd be all be horny and lonely.

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LatentBloomer

I think he's a narcissist who just wants you to give him positive feedback. 

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Zagi

Hmmm, I wonder if maybe he found out that he has hsv too and because of that now he wants to engage/connect with you. If that's the case, nudes are totally screwed up way to do it. Otherwise, he's a jerk, drunk or on drugs.

If you decide to go forward with him, I think it would be smart to ask him to get tested so you know for sure what his status is because that is very weird behavior. 

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skeptik

he sounds like such a jerk.  tell him he's ugly and has a shit body. that should do the trick lol.

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macho
On 10/1/2017 at 9:04 AM, Poisonflower said:

So I told this guy I knew that I had herpes cause we were friends and he wanted to have sex . Well he stopped talking to me and I looked the other way. Here it is 3 months later and he's sending me nudes...wth is that?

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Boys are and will be boys, trust me :) a He simply wants sex with you and that is alll :)

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Spider man

Sometimes ppl are only good for one thing so with that being said if you just wanna use him til your Knight and shining armor comes depending on state make sure you record all dialogue so he doesn't try to twist it around legal wise. Other then that you have a block button on your phone I would think 

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Unkle
On 10/8/2017 at 1:27 AM, skeptik said:

he sounds like such a jerk.  tell him he's ugly and has a shit body. that should do the trick lol.

Or just block him and move on? Might be less of a drama fest.

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LoganPaten
On 10/1/2017 at 12:34 PM, Poisonflower said:

So I told this guy I knew that I had herpes cause we were friends and he wanted to have sex. Well he stopped talking to me and I looked the other way. Here it is 3 months later and he's sending me nudes...wth is that?

Boys are and will be boys, trust me :) a He simply wants sex with you and that is alll :)

 

You give this list of hookup apps and say enjoy with them.

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