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    I just recently got diagnosed with hsv2 in October, ironically 2 weeks b4 my Birthday. Yaaay me &( !! N-E-ways, does any1 know of legit dating sites for people with herpes. Especially if they are free. Most ive tried, let you sign up and post a picture. But if you want to messege people, you have to pay a monthly fee. I wouldnt mind if it was a couple of bucks but wen its like $30 to $50. It feels like they are taking advantage of people in a vulnerable situation.

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