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I'm terrified that I have herpes. I went to a planned Parenthood clinic after some bumps and smells and they tested my urine and told me it's Balanitis because of the smell and discharge (yeast). But now I'm worried because apparently herpes only shows up in blood tests? (Why wouldn't they do that too?!?)


That was back in August and I've thought nothing of it since it went away. I've had no new partners and no symptoms until this. It doesn't sting or burn and doesn't hurt to pee. This showed up and now I'm worrying.  I think it does look like herpes and will be seeing a doctor but I figured while I wait I'd get an opinion here. 




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Many of us guys have those, I do.

I reckon they are pearly papules.

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It Penile papule which is not riskly almost half of the men have it..relax

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Not herpes for sure. I hope you feel better. 

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I have those as well, even more actually. I am negative for both. 

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