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Brazilian waxes are bullsh

This might sound a little amateur. But I woke up with my OB worse than it was last night. I have work then class then work. I tried just calling out of the first shift figuring I'll have a better chance of feeling better later and have some time for my doctor to get back to me. But they weren't having it. I'm only a server at a chilis. Not a congress woman.

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KG9715

I just say I have the flu or something contagious like strep 

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Taintedgirl

Stomach bug/food poisoning, time of the month, you passed out/ blacked out your mom/ partner thinks you should stay home, someone in the hospital, dog got hit by a car

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KCookie

I run my own business so I call the customer and say I have a bad stomach bug. Did this last Tuesday evening and didn't go back to work until the following Wednesday. No one is going to think otherwise or question stomach bugs.

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