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What’s up with the frequent OBs after a year without one?


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Okay-full story in the welcoming forums. Basically sept 2016 I contracted hsv 2, got started on valacyclovir, it healed, had 2nd OB in March 17 due to skipping some doses so stared back on. One year completely Ob free. Now in March (I was sick so immune system was down)  I had a terrible OB. Not sure if I might’ve used my toy when there was an OB currently and didn’t realize it (sorry for tmi!) or what. But just inches of Lil white bumps. They didn’t hurt, sting or itch *thank goodness* but im almost sure that’s what they were. I applied coconut oil constantly and boom they disappeared. Now it’s May and I’m having another Ob. Still on meds. Yes I’ve been stressed but I had been stressed during my year with no OB. What gives? And go to stop them? Stress levels are lowering due to graduation coming soon. And I am going to try to drink apple cider vinegar and/or coconut oil in my tea everyday to prevent them. Does that help some? I’ve been applying both to the area down there and I’m hoping to see some healing soon. Please help!

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13 minutes ago, Taintedgirl said:

Have you tried getting a Gynecologist exam it might be pesky yeast 

I have not! I do have a GYNO apt next month and if this stuff is still going on I’ll definitely talk to my doc. I’m so mad, I did have pics of the bumps (I guess you could call them) when it was going on in March but it made me feel so nasty seeing them so I erased them! I considered a yeast but I had had yeast infections before and there weren’t ever bumps like tht

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Hey honey......they way ur body deals with stress can be the reasoning.........i have been diagnosed almost 3yrs now and I've only had to take the meds twice....... if u need to talk

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On 5/7/2018 at 10:31 PM, Joseyrosie81 said:

Hey honey......they way ur body deals with stress can be the reasoning.........i have been diagnosed almost 3yrs now and I've only had to take the meds twice....... if u need to talk

I guess so! I’m trying to find ways to de stress. And trying to eat a better diet and just anything to make them go away! Did you ever take suppressive therapy? I’m aftaid of almost two years being on it that when I try to go off I’ll have outbreaks like crazy!

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Lysine 3x/day supplement and water and I still have the initial pulls given when I found out.....i take this and I promise I haven't had one

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I have 1 as well it hurt very bad BUT since antiviral for 2wks and all it hasn't came back in my mouth.....IT  is in our bloodstream  and some have BREAKOUTS often n some dont

 

Oh yea Mary helps me cope

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I was outbreak free for a year. Then I think i stopped on suppressive from September till about January and had an outbreak in January, back to back ones. I have had nothing now for a few months and don't feel anything, I'm not on suppressive again... so I don't know... no real changes in my life. 

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