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So I met a girl on pof but not in person she wants to meet and also wants sex. I don't want to turn her down but don't want to say the words. So it sucks cause im stuck thinking if only i didn't have sex with that one girl. Seems like ill never date again.

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1 hour ago, valleynovascotia said:

So I met a girl on pof but not in person she wants to meet and also wants sex. I don't want to turn her down but don't want to say the words. So it sucks cause im stuck thinking if only i didn't have sex with that one girl. Seems like ill never date again.

If you haven't met her and she is already dtf, she probably already has it then and maybe doesn't even know it.

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30 minutes ago, true_blue said:

If you haven't met her and she is already dtf, she probably already has it then and maybe doesn't even know it.

I wish it was that way but it's not very common around here most women don't have this and I have no confidence in disclosing it's always a dealbreaker for me probably best just too stop talking to her sucks though i'm wasting my life away. Over 3 years since i had sex but I don't want to do what my giver did too me.

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39 minutes ago, valleynovascotia said:

I wish it was that way but it's not very common around here most women don't have this and I have no confidence in disclosing it's always a dealbreaker for me probably best just too stop talking to her sucks though i'm wasting my life away. Over 3 years since i had sex but I don't want to do what my giver did too me.

Just talk to her anyways you never know. Don't reject yourself ask her and find out what happens.

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Just now, true_blue said:

Just talk to her anyways you never know. Don't reject yourself ask her and find out what happens.

Over text or in person If I tell her to quick that's all she'll see in me.

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34 minutes ago, valleynovascotia said:

Over text or in person If I tell her to quick that's all she'll see in me.

You definitely have to spend some time with her so she can decide that she enjoys your personality. You have to frame it in such a way in which you don't scare her and she will know she will be safe. I can't help you there. But if she is into you then you might as well give it a try.

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My fear is one thing will lead to another and may partake in the heat of the moment seeing how  havn't had sex in over 3 years but I guess this ones on me.

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Bro, keep it simple. Tell her right away, it’s not only the right thing, but all she can say is “see ya.” Then you’re right back to where you are now. Anyone can omit these things but a real man will be honest and forthcoming to someone. She’ll respect you at a minimum and if she doesn’t, she isn’t worth it anyhow. You’ll do the right thing. 

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You are letting life pass you by, it only takes one YES,it might not be from her,but if you keep going there will be some. There is a guy on here named Warrior King who has had this for years and said it has not stopped him  finding women . I don't have any outbreaks and never had a symptom ,so the point is you don't know who has this and who does not, so that gal my have it . I don't know your age,but you have to live for NOW,I have lost a lot of people in the last few years,so that is why I am saying that.  

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