What does it mean when someone keeps sending you abusive messages?

[Taintedgirl]

Just wondering because I’ve never spoken to said person outside of answering a question and responding to the first posted message in the image and they’re kind of going crazy. Here’s the proof for those interested as you can see I haven’t replied so I don’t know how long this is going to go on but hopefully one of you wise folks can help your friend @Hockeyawesome1 out.

P.S Happy World Cup everyone it’s not popular here in the states but I know other people love soccer so enjoy the games 

 

[Xmk224]

Wow this was a direct messaage?? Id tell @Hockeyawesome1 that plenty of ppl want to fuck fat chicks. Dont knock it till u try it...

[Taintedgirl]

I literally didn’t know what to say lol like I’m not even fat so how can I be offended then at the same time it’s like why are you sending me such messages?

[GotMeAtLast]

8 hours ago, Taintedgirl said:

I literally didn’t know what to say lol like I’m not even fat so how can I be offended then at the same time it’s like why are you sending me such messages?

Just block him. It's hard enough dealing with this without having someone making it even harder.

I am just glad I am not alone in this.

[Quest]

He is just venting because he is so mad at you for attacking him or one of his friends?? or not, but he is really upset.  Just ignore it and don't respond. It is better that he did it in private.

[Unrequited]

He's mad because, he/her is coming on here looking for solace and a realistic perspective on having HSV. The actual kind, like when he speaks to doctors, or people who have it are rational, understand it, know the current science. Or websites saying it is common and normal. And then goes through the posts and finds you commenting negatively again and again. He is getting pissed because you are effectively telling him it is the end of the world and it is not.  I get amazingly pissed off with you too. Not for me, but because I can see how your behaviour, attitude and distorted outlook is detrimental to others. I just haven't private messaged you to tell you you are wrong and you are not helping people in any way. especially those recently diagnosed. 

And what is it with the "What does it mean with...." click bait. You knew exactly what you were doing posting this "private" message in a public forum. As HockeyAwsome suggests. Get off the support boards, get some social support, live your life, but stop bringing people down with your nihilistic views. It is not helping anybody.

This is exactly what he has said in private and I am very clear exactly what it means.

Hope that answers your question.

[Taintedgirl]

7 hours ago, Unrequited said:

He's mad because, he/her is coming on here looking for solace and a realistic perspective on having HSV. The actual kind, like when he speaks to doctors, or people who have it are rational, understand it, know the current science. Or websites saying it is common and normal. And then goes through the posts and finds you commenting negatively again and again. He is getting pissed because you are effectively telling him it is the end of the world and it is not.  I get amazingly pissed off with you too. Not for me, but because I can see how your behaviour, attitude and distorted outlook is detrimental to others. I just haven't private messaged you to tell you you are wrong and you are not helping people in any way. especially those recently diagnosed. 

And what is it with the "What does it mean with...." click bait. You knew exactly what you were doing posting this "private" message in a public forum. As HockeyAwsome suggests. Get off the support boards, get some social support, live your life, but stop bringing people down with your nihilistic views. It is not helping anybody.

This is exactly what he has said in private and I am very clear exactly what it means.

Hope that answers your question.

Why get upset? It’s the internet if you don’t like my opinion just keep trucking I skip a lot of things because I find them ridiculous. I have zero problems with people on here but just because you don’t like my opinion doesn’t mean I deserve insults. Regardless I’m not changing because someone needs to say when people shilling fake cures are wrong. 

I have a great support system off the site all my friends are cool with me having the herp some even have it themselves my friend who works for dr Khalili recommended this place, why do people always assume there’s something wrong with you or your lonely just because you don’t agree with them? The world would be sad if we all thought like you. Why get mad at differing opinions? Just being realistic here from what I’m being told.

8 hours ago, Quest said:

He is just venting because he is so mad at you for attacking him or one of his friends?? or not, but he is really upset.  Just ignore it and don't respond. It is better that he did it in private.

It was random like out of nowhere I’ve never said anything to him. But I will ignore it thanks quest. 

Edited June 17, 2018 by Taintedgirl

[Unrequited]

It appears you have completely misinterpreted what I have said and misdirected it for your own benefit or willful blindness and denial. Makes sense that you 'skip a lot of things'

"If you don't like it. Keep trucking, it's the internet" Let me give you an example.... people go on a grieving forum because they have lost a chiild looking for healing and resolution. Most people are telling them, you will heal in time, do this and this and this. You will heal over time,  - Your answer, you'll be in abject emotional pain forever, might as well not bother. Just suffer and give up. I have done, come along with me to endure the torment. - Then when someone disagrees with you, you're like, hey, if you don't like what I say, why are you here. Just keep on trucking. Jog on... Erm, because this is a support group. Not a destroy group.

The comment, "i'm fine just the way I am, i'm not changing for anyone" is a sure fire way to bumble through life. Pissing people off and not growing. When multiple people tell you something, from different sources, you should listen because they may be telling you something important. What I am saying is that is not all about you, and I am not the only one pointing it out to you.

"No the world would be sad if we all thought like you". If you listed my comments and yours side by side, I can guarantee yours would be on the nihilistic, negative side. Whilst mine are pragmatic, couched in science fact, realism, optimism and compassion and trying to be helpful. that is however, unless people are trying actively, whether consciously or subconsciously to increase peoples suffering.

I find your pessimistic attitude significantly more harmful and contagious than herpes. I  understand that you are angry and hurting, and resentful and nihilistic somewhat. Even if you may deny it, it's evidently inferred and intrinsic to your comments.  If you want to espouse your melancholy and negative thoughts, use the correct parts of the forums.

[ill47]

On 6/16/2018 at 3:07 PM, Unrequited said:

He's mad because, he/her is coming on here looking for solace and a realistic perspective on having HSV. The actual kind, like when he speaks to doctors, or people who have it are rational, understand it, know the current science. Or websites saying it is common and normal. And then goes through the posts and finds you commenting negatively again and again. He is getting pissed because you are effectively telling him it is the end of the world and it is not.  I get amazingly pissed off with you too. Not for me, but because I can see how your behaviour, attitude and distorted outlook is detrimental to others. I just haven't private messaged you to tell you you are wrong and you are not helping people in any way. especially those recently diagnosed. 

And what is it with the "What does it mean with...." click bait. You knew exactly what you were doing posting this "private" message in a public forum. As HockeyAwsome suggests. Get off the support boards, get some social support, live your life, but stop bringing people down with your nihilistic views. It is not helping anybody.

This is exactly what he has said in private and I am very clear exactly what it means.

Hope that answers your question.

Maybe you skipped over the part where he goes on about how fat she must be, etc. etc.