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Matjik

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Matjik

Hello I'm a 34 year old single father who is diagnosed with hsv2. The stigma is crazy and I haven't dated for sometime. I'm sick and tired of feeling lonely and untouchable. The first person I disclosed it too said I was "f#+!ed for life" so I have a hard time talking to people about it. I just wanted to reach out. I mean it's more of a nuisance than anything right ? 

 

Trying to keep positive... 

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WilsoInAus

Only the nuisance you let it be in some respects.

Your diagnosis seems a little surprising? How did it come about?

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Matjik
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I was passing out on my bed after having some drinks with an old friend. I woke up to her about to give me oral sex.  I later on proceeded to cuddle naked with her and fall asleep. I guess there was skin to skin contact and I contracted it. 

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Matjik

By a doctor at a walk in clinic.

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Sean123
9 hours ago, Matjik said:

Hello I'm a 34 year old single father who is diagnosed with hsv2. The stigma is crazy and I haven't dated for sometime. I'm sick and tired of feeling lonely and untouchable. The first person I disclosed it too said I was "f#+!ed for life" so I have a hard time talking to people about it. I just wanted to reach out. I mean it's more of a nuisance than anything right ? 

 

Trying to keep positive... 

Where in Canada are you? 

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Matjik
2 hours ago, Sean123 said:

Where in Canada are you? 

Ontario

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Matjik
4 hours ago, WilsoInAus said:

What tests were applied?

a sample with a tiny needle direcly from a blister.

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Inlimbo

Wow! Some told you that you were F'd for life?! Wonder if that person was certain of their own hsv status. Ignorance seems like bliss...but not always the case. 

Yes...it is a nuisance. Maybe only even in the sense of disclosure. Some people never have OB's. 

I get not wanting to talk about it. There are people in my life I would not tell. But I have opened up to my closest family and friends. I've told them what I am dealing with, presented the facts and advised them to go for complete std panels themselves. There are ones so much worse than this. Do not be ashamed....you have not done anything wrong.

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