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I have met a wonderful woman and married her I have always suspected I have had hsv 2 no symptoms but was told by my ex she may have had it ..I got tested before we got married and recieved confirmation the day of our marriage ugh...I am devasted now I am married to a wonderful woman and have to disclose..We have been traveling for two days to get back from our marriage location and haven’t been intimate yet I always held off on sexual intercourse due to my fear of possibly having hsv..that’s what I should’ve done was disclosed the possibility ..now I’m heartbroken and don’t know what to do..any advise would be appreciated..please I know delaying the testing and disclosure was wrong dont beat me up for it thanks to all

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dont quit!17

No need to beat up on you here. Whats the bother? 

As hard as it may be, do the right thing, now that you know for sure. 

Good luck pm if you need to talk. 

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RobJ
1 hour ago, dont quit!17 said:

No need to beat up on you here. Whats the bother? 

As hard as it may be, do the right thing, now that you know for sure. 

Good luck pm if you need to talk. 

I know I need to if she leaves I understand but honestly no symptoms I remember having an intense itch for a few days a loooong time ago but that was the extent of it ..I am just trying to find the right words and hope she doesnt feel like I decieved her..wilson blood test  no swab..She wants kids and I really don’t know how to explain how that is possible in my situation

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WilsoInAus

The blood test results are critical. Was it IgM? Are there separate results for type 1 and 2. That sort of thing.

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Poisonflower

For better or worse in sickness and health. She’s gunna be mad but she took vows and if she means them she will get over it

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