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chloe808

Stress and another OB

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chloe808

I think all this stress from finding out I have gh and the anxiety about telling my bf has triggered the worst ob ever. Its actually been 3 consecutive ones. A bad one followed by a minor one and now a worse one. I am so down. I think I'm going to tell my bf today. I just can't take the anxiety anymore. I'm not prepared. I don't know what I'm going to tell him, but it will go something like: "I have something really important that I need to talk to you about and I don't want to accuse you of anything. I went to the doctor and it turns out I have herpes..."

It really sucks to have to tell someone you've been with for almost 3 years that all of a sudden you have herpes and expect them to believe you have been faithful or to believe that you didn't know you had it from before and have been lying to them. Wish me the best. Hopefully, after i get this off my chest these obs will subside.

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catiesmom

GOOD LUCK! I hope it helps relieve some of your anxiety!!!

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chloe808

Thanks I told him and it wasn't anywhere near as horrible as I thought. We are going to take it one step at a time. He got tested and we'll see where we go when his results come back, but he is being really understanding and supportive even though he is upset and overwhelmed at the thought of having H.

I do feel better.

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catiesmom

Good for you! And good for him! Let us know.

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