Getting the Truth OUt

[f*ckedOver]

I am just curious if anyone has knowledge on the question I am about to ask. 

First it requires some background....the lady who f*cked me over completely lied to my face about "being clean"....when I asked her before we engaged, she told me she had been tested 2 months prior and was "good to go".....really she knew she had HSV-2.  She didn't tell me until 3 weeks later.  I also found out she lied about her age by 10 years. She was one of those women that really just looked much younger than she was.

Anyways, I have seen her on Tinder and other dating sites, again lying about her age. 

MY question is what kind if any legal action would there be if I created another profile on these dating apps with her pictures and a similiar name and putting information on this profile...something to the effect, "Be careful with me" ..." I have things you DO NOT WANT and I won't be honest about it" ....you catch my drift. It just sickens me. I have to disclose and face rejection all of the time while she infected me and is out there likely infecting other people. She is a real estate lawyer. The most sickening part of it all is that she has 2 profile claiming 10 years younger...like she did to me. 

The worst one is I have seen her on Tinder where she lies about her age by 20 f*cking years. I called the State Health Department to try and report her for intentionally infecting people, they don't care because HIV is their concern. She INSISTS on using Lambskin condoms and during the act of sex, she literally told me, " Leave your cock in me, just leave it in there, it feels good even when you aren't thrusting"....I thought it was strange, but at the same time I could see women enjoying the sensation. Just really f*cking urks me....I now deal with nearly constant mild outbreaks on my scalp/forehead region, groin, thighs, and sometimes random ones pop up on my arms and shins.  Why the f*ck do I have to deal with this until the day I die and face rejection over and over. While this c*nt is out there living happy, f*cking whomever she wants because she won't tell them, and is very likely spreading this disease....??!?!!!?!?!?!?

What do I have to lose by exposing here or at least trying to get men to see her "other profile" so they question her.....I'm sorry but I want this b*tch to deal with the same sh*t I do. Some people are so f*cking evil in this world. She doesn't deserve to continuously put other people at risk...but she is getting away with it. Sure the website might take the accounts down eventually bc she would surely find out....but seriously....it's worth the effort. I don't care if i have to pay money for a Virtual PRivate Network. This b*Tch took my life ...someone needs to teach her a lesson and put a stop to her garbage.....

Any advice, suggestions would be great.....My state doesn't prosecute for HSV and I certainly don't want records showing up that could pop-up on a background check for a job....People do discriminate, including employers.

[WilsoInAus]

No sorry, YOU are an adult and YOU are responsible for the outcomes of YOUR choices.

Do you actually have HSV-2?

[Lola01]

6 hours ago, f*ckedOver said:

I am just curious if anyone has knowledge on the question I am about to ask. 

First it requires some background....the lady who f*cked me over completely lied to my face about "being clean"....when I asked her before we engaged, she told me she had been tested 2 months prior and was "good to go".....really she knew she had HSV-2.  She didn't tell me until 3 weeks later.  I also found out she lied about her age by 10 years. She was one of those women that really just looked much younger than she was.

Anyways, I have seen her on Tinder and other dating sites, again lying about her age. 

MY question is what kind if any legal action would there be if I created another profile on these dating apps with her pictures and a similiar name and putting information on this profile...something to the effect, "Be careful with me" ..." I have things you DO NOT WANT and I won't be honest about it" ....you catch my drift. It just sickens me. I have to disclose and face rejection all of the time while she infected me and is out there likely infecting other people. She is a real estate lawyer. The most sickening part of it all is that she has 2 profile claiming 10 years younger...like she did to me. 

The worst one is I have seen her on Tinder where she lies about her age by 20 f*cking years. I called the State Health Department to try and report her for intentionally infecting people, they don't care because HIV is their concern. She INSISTS on using Lambskin condoms and during the act of sex, she literally told me, " Leave your cock in me, just leave it in there, it feels good even when you aren't thrusting"....I thought it was strange, but at the same time I could see women enjoying the sensation. Just really f*cking urks me....I now deal with nearly constant mild outbreaks on my scalp/forehead region, groin, thighs, and sometimes random ones pop up on my arms and shins.  Why the f*ck do I have to deal with this until the day I die and face rejection over and over. While this c*nt is out there living happy, f*cking whomever she wants because she won't tell them, and is very likely spreading this disease....??!?!!!?!?!?!?

What do I have to lose by exposing here or at least trying to get men to see her "other profile" so they question her.....I'm sorry but I want this b*tch to deal with the same sh*t I do. Some people are so f*cking evil in this world. She doesn't deserve to continuously put other people at risk...but she is getting away with it. Sure the website might take the accounts down eventually bc she would surely find out....but seriously....it's worth the effort. I don't care if i have to pay money for a Virtual PRivate Network. This b*Tch took my life ...someone needs to teach her a lesson and put a stop to her garbage.....

Any advice, suggestions would be great.....My state doesn't prosecute for HSV and I certainly don't want records showing up that could pop-up on a background check for a job....People do discriminate, including employers.

I was lied too when I asked to use condoms. The guy said he was clear and could not use condoms because he had sensitive skin... all was bullshi**

I wouldn't think about doing anything to him as I accepted to take the risk and we are adults at the end of the day. Bare in mind I get outbreaks quite often now and yes I do feel resentful on the guy every time I get a new OB.. but it's our responsibility to sleep with someone we don't really know and more going without protection. 

Life doesn't end because Herpes. I'm sure you have other important things to be focussing on than looking for revenge 

[#NOSHAMEGANG]

I feel yall, I really do. I got oral herpes from a girl at work that I later figured out lied to me about doing drugs cause I'm am ex IV drug addict for years, I've been clean since june and been around dope whores my whole life but knew them so I never f*cked with them but i got clean and moved to a new state, got a job immediately, my own place, and was doing good minutes a heart valve issue i got due to the iv drugs but I trusted this girl after knowing her for months and she came over and we had sex and 8 or 9 days later 3 red splotches formed one beside the corned of my mouth, one right below my left eyebrow, and one on the tip of my nose, 2 of which were over the average size of a common sore. Turns out my heart issue makes it very hard to fight bacteria so after the 10 days of hell I went through with oozing sores for 5 or 6 days straight they scabbed and when the scab fell off I thought I was good but the bacteria left over from the outbreak ended up causing all my sores to get impetigo immediately after the scabs fell off so it was basically a milder outbreak and a huge hassle. Well I got the first outbreak a little over a month ago and the sores are just now starting to slowly heal while still tingling once or twice every couple days. I'm terrified of having another actual herpes outbreak before they heal because I'm sure still being damaged skin it would be much easier to have a stress induced outbreak before they heal. The shittiest part of it all is the girl denys everything so I told her if she really thinks I just happens to show symptoms for the first time ever, a week or 2 after having sex with her then whatever but for her health I told her to go to the Dr and she just won't go and I've noticed red areas, not blisters but like mild outbreaks on her face and I have to see her everyday and work with her atleast 3 days a week. It's hell having to look at and have to interact with the person who completely knowingly f*cked me over and not being able to understand how anyone can just knowing spread a virus and not care.. I'm not religious and id never hurt a woman but I broke down and prayed to God for the strength not to smack that b*tch cause I suffered out of work with oozing painful big sores for 11 days and had to work with her my first day back. People are fucked up i dont understand how anyone could live with themself knowing they've infected even one person without doing anything to prevent it or being honest about it. I own my virus, I don't hide it cause then it's like I have something to be ashamed of, and in reality the only people who judge people with herpes are uneducated and need to take the 2 minutes it takes to Google herpes and read a paragraph telling everyone that majority of people have it just don't know it due to a good immune system or just lucky. If I'm not kissing or having sex with someone It shouldn't concern them that I have the virus, but I'm not gonna lie about it. I have 2 large 3/4inch long scars from injection scars from IV drugs and Im not ashamed of them so why would I be ashamed of something i had no idea of knowing that I would get from someone I trusted. Being open about it to people nosey enough to ask is a much better feeling than lying because if you have a sore and they ask you what it is o guarantee they've already told people that you got herpes before even asking you because people are shitty. I'm sorry that y'all also had the unfortunate experience of getting lied to and catching this bullshit, just know I'm with yall, yal l aren't alone 

 

[f*ckedOver]

Why do other men not have a right to know? SHE LIES !!!! @WilsoInAus sorry dude, but I f*cking asked this woman about STD's you can pull the bullsh*t responsibility card if you like. I did the responsible thing by asking, the only thing I could have gone further on was asking to see test results. Even then a full panel doesn't even include HSV. IDC how much reputation you have, your response is bullshit. pure bullshit. WE have had talks before you always question me, I have gotten in touch with 2 lead researchers and at first they were dumbfounded. We know have an answer and it is HSV; you need to realize people have ATYPICAL symptoms and we all have different bodies & immune systems. Just because my symptoms aren't typical doesn't take away from my suffering. 

@Lola01 I have nearly constant outbreaks and reminders that I was lied to. Truth is women have it easier in MOST cases as far as meeting someone, from all the conversations, reading of other peoples' stories women get rejected FAR less than men. Yes they are prone to more physical anguish IF they even have outbreaks, but rejection and dating is by FAR better for women. Especially the woman that LIED TO ME. Intentionally tried to infect me and DID. 

Finally, I did not ask for a parent-son talk. I asked about legalities of getting this information available to other men so that they are ALSO NOT LIED TOO. I know how much I suffer and I know if I can help save other men from this woman than I believe it is my responsibility. For christ sakes, this woman filed bankruptcy and listed me as a creditor to protect herself because she INTENTIONALLY INFECTED ME. 

I don't care how responsible you are, if someone lies and you don't think to actually ask to see test results and are fully knowledgable on the supposed "full-panel" you are f*cked....BOTTOMLINE. 

Sex-ed never talked to me about HSV not being on a full panel, my parents didn't know, all the friends I have opened up about this with didn't know,  not a single doctor or nurse ever told me until I began doing specific research on HSV after realizing I was f*cked.  If you only have bullsh*t replies, then don't bother replying. 

[Terrell]

12 hours ago, WilsoInAus said:

No sorry, YOU are an adult and YOU are responsible for the outcomes of YOUR choices.

Do you actually have HSV-2?

Yes sorry bro I agree you are responsible as well.

[f*ckedOver]

@#NOSHAMEGANG

Hang in there man and be careful about who you talk to here. Some people like to blame you for everything and question your symptoms. I have had ever since joining this site. This woman clearly did infect you by the way. Some people like to pull the "well you could have had it for years card and just never knew". Yeah maybe the people that don't pay CLOSE attention to their body. I have spoken with several researchers from various universities and 2 different vaccine development teams. The first outbreak there is always some symptom whether it's itching, extremely mild sore to the more obvious sores, redness of skin, tingling etc...they always show face. Don't believe the liars or the doubters are there. 

Atypical symptoms exist. 

[f*ckedOver]

@Terrell Seriously if you aren't going to actually respond to the question then DON'T REPLY.

Edited November 3, 2018 by f*ckedOver
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[f*ckedOver]

To anyone reading this thread. Seriously. If you are going to sit on your pedestal and tell me it's my fault. Then DO NOT BOTHER REPLYING....

This thread is about the legality risks I face if I put warnings out there so other MEN&WOMEN DON'T FALL VICTIM TO THIS WOMAN'S LIES !!!!!

[Terrell]

12 hours ago, WilsoInAus said:

No sorry, YOU are an adult and YOU are responsible for the outcomes of YOUR choices.

Do you actually have HSV-2?

Yes sorry bro I agree you are responsible as well.

[Quest]

None if she doesn't catch you. If she knows it is you she knows which lawyer to use against you. You decide if it is worth stirring the pot. Use the library to cover your tracks? One far away! What a bold witch!

[WilsoInAus]

26 minutes ago, f*ckedOver said:

To anyone reading this thread. Seriously. If you are going to sit on your pedestal and tell me it's my fault. Then DO NOT BOTHER REPLYING....

This thread is about the legality risks I face if I put warnings out there so other MEN&WOMEN DON'T FALL VICTIM TO THIS WOMAN'S LIES !!!!!

No, the legalities start with you actually having evidence that you actually have HSV-2.

It appears that you have never actually tested positive for HSV-2.

If not then it is you engaging in libel.- and that is illegal.

The woman’s actions may be dishonest and disreputable, but that’s not illegal.

YOU are a free man in a free country, that’s a blessing and comes with responsibilities and you have to take accountability.

NO ONE FORCED YOU TO:

- install apps like Tinder and establish profiles

- commence conversations with women

- choose to have sex with women you met (knowing that about half available women aged 40 plus have HSV-2)

- not demand to have mutual testing for what was of concern for you (or see their birth certificate, although why that matters I don’t know you looked them in the eye)

- not be able to choose the protection you felt appropriate.

Even all this is not the reason I have set this out. The real reason is that this hatred and fear you are carrying thinking it will destroy another person is actually destroying you.

[Quest]

This community should support not tear down each other! Pretty obvious he doesn't feel good and you don't have to kick him while he is down! We beat ourself up enough and we don't need your help! Please stop!

[WilsoInAus]

Just now, Quest said:

This community should support not tear down each other! Pretty obvious he doesn't feel good and you don't have to kick him while he is down! We beat ourself up enough and we don't need your help! Please stop!

No that is not acceptable, we owe a duty of care to all people. What about the woman that is being abused and slandered? Who thinks of her and stands up for her. 

It is this victimisation of people simply because they have HSV-2 that is what is creating the stigma in the first place. 

 

[f*ckedOver]

@WilsoInAus

ABUSED!?!?! Are you f*cking kidding me dude? The only person that was abused was me, this woman damaged my health. THe spreading of this disease could be reduced dramatically if people were honest and actually gave a damn about other people. This woman is neither being victimized or abused, she is a f*cking psycho that is going around infecting people. She is lying to them left and right. Come back to reality. Actually just stop replying you clearly have this woman's back for who knows what crazy reason/logic.

You also assume that I know statistics on this woman. Again sex education needs an overhaul. Every person I have talked to is shocked. You wouldn't know as much as you did had you not been infected yourself. I don't think i have met a single person that is free of it that has much knowledge of this DISEASE. 

Once again, this woman lied about her age by 10 years and since have seen her lying by 20 years. Yet again you attempt to find ways to diminish me. I chatted with this woman for 2 months before engaging. I used protection, not knowing her persistence for lambskin offers minimal protection. I asked the question and felt the vibe out. Everything seemed normal and legit. 

Until I find 2 sores ~2 weeks later. There is a stigma and rightfully, this is not, "just some skin condition". Look at the latest research regarding folks that have "said gene" and the link with Alzheimers.....

- Nerve Pain
- Painful Sores
- Constant Itching
- Exhausted and ran down immune system
- Low Energy Levels - constant fatigue ( yes that is real I have talked with other people whom feel the same way). 

let's not forget the possibility of this disease being linked to cancer and who knows what else. 

Stop backing and support people that lie for their own selfish reasons. I did what most people do, never in my life have I met a person that has told me they actually asked for birth certificate, drivers license, recent std results on paper. NOT ONE. I have never been asked and out of the many people I know that I have talked about sex wth, not a single person has asked for papers. I have done what most normal people do and it came down to a woman that LIED or you can call it shitty luck if you like. 

DOn't bother replying wilson. you already questioned me on my status and my suffering. So kindly fuck off. 

[WilsoInAus]

@f*ckedOver I’m sorry but that is all entirely unacceptable social behaviour.

Let’s make it real simple.

You do not have genital herpes, you do not have HSV-2.

So what’s the issue? There is no basis for your bitterness, your anger, your vengeance. 

Lift yourself man, is this how you define yourself as man? What life do you want for yourself. Live your dream man.

Let go of your anger and you will find a better life. Please see a psychologist if you can’t find your lift.

[Quest]

W, you negating / invalidating people's comments is why they go off on you and you don't know when to stop after you have poured gas on the fire. Then blame them because they have had enough of your crap.

Edited to add.

F'edOver, you can say anything you want about her, it just has to be true or she can get you for slander. I think what she will do is make you miserable with litigation, so you might think twice. There is such a thing as a frivolous lawsuit and they don't go away right away.

What if you just ask her out and then when she gets all dolled up you stand her up?!? Maybe after a while she will get tired of that and not want to do it anymore?

Edited November 4, 2018 by Quest

[WilsoInAus]

Exactly, one can’t stop, here is enormous damage to people with HSV-2 that this website is about addressing.

This is a herpes support website for people with herpes. Not for people who want to bash people with herpes.

How do you think women actually with HSV-2 feel when reading the awful rant above? I for one will never accept it. Your principles in life might be different. I implore you to actually have some sensitivity to ALL gods creatures and not just a single person who writes drivel.

Your suggestions are quite immature, maturity is not to stoop to her level. We all have choices of course, but it is what we do with our choices that defines us. Would you really do the actions you suggest yourself??

[Quest]

This woman will not stop spreading herpes around he has every right to be angry and feel gypped.

If this happened to me I would feel the same way and it takes quite a bit of time to get over the initial shock when someone has really ripped you a new one! Maybe we are the ones who need to be more patient! Right now this is his best and that is okay! We should be appalled that she is doing this because that is not Who We Are!

In my state she would be arrested!

Edited November 4, 2018 by Quest

[WilsoInAus]

No she wouldn’t be arrested, he hasn’t tested positive, in fact he’s negative.

In ALL states, he’s being slanderous.

[Quest]

s it illegal to not tell someone you have herpes in Texas?

That being said, it is typically illegal, civilly and criminally, to knowingly or recklessly transmit an STD. Telling someone you have an STD is not the same obligation as knowingly transmitting an STD. Specifically, some states have laws that require you to tell certain people if you are HIV-positive.Sep 8, 2018

It is it is not slanderous if it is the truth! I have a family member who is a lawyer and we just went through this!

[WilsoInAus]

Incorrect, there must be intent to transfer the virus and it must transfer.

Condoms were used so this would probably throw out the intention.

And the virus did not transmit.

[f*ckedOver]

Kindly fuck off @WilsoInAus Don't you ever berate someone whom suffers. You apparently think you have other peoples' health records. You think you know everything. You can seriously fuck off. I have every right to be angry. Thank You @Quest this duechebag has nothing better to do with his life than tell people they don't suffer when they do. He isn't competent enough to realize that people do have Atypical symptoms and that some people are OUTLIERS. 

The only therapy I need is pounding your face into the ground for trying to tell me I don't have something that I do. You are a sick individual running around here telling people they don't suffer. HSV is a serious virus and there are reasons why the stigma exists. Sure a LOT OF PEOPLE don't have that severe of symptoms, good for them. Some of us struggle every week because of this issue. Who would want to go from living a normal life to dealing with highly contagious virus that damages other peoples' physical and mental health ? Who wants to risk dealing with sores that can show face in various parts of the body? 

The woman even told me after my first sores appeared, "be careful it spreads to other parts of the body" ...she blamed me for getting the virus "bc I assumed risk". I assumed risk because she told me she was "clean"..."Goof to go, recently tested".... I WOULD HAVE NEVER TAKEN THAT RISK IF SHE TOLD ME THE TRUTH. 

I have every right to be angry, this woman LIED TO ME and is INFECTING OTHER MEN.  Normal people with ethics do not do such a thing. Come to think of it, maybe the reason why you are backing this woman so hard is because you do the same thing....wouldn't shock me at this point. 

Does anyone know a way to block members ? I'm ready to hit that button. I came here for support. I didn't come here to have some asshole tell me what my diagnosis is, what my health is, what I deal with and if I suffer or not.I didn't come here to have some duechebag tell me that looking out for other men and possibly other women is slander.  If you know you have the virus then you should be required to inform any potential suitor that you carry it so they can make that choice, not the other person. That is how you reduce the spread of disease, you implement laws to deter things from happening. It's the same principle as laws for theft, violence, etc.

WILSOLNAUS ....you CAN FUCK OFF. SERIOUSLY. 



 
 

Edited November 4, 2018 by f*ckedOver

[Spider man]

21 hours ago, WilsoInAus said:

No, the legalities start with you actually having evidence that you actually have HSV-2.

It appears that you have never actually tested positive for HSV-2.

If not then it is you engaging in libel.- and that is illegal.

The woman’s actions may be dishonest and disreputable, but that’s not illegal.

YOU are a free man in a free country, that’s a blessing and comes with responsibilities and you have to take accountability.

NO ONE FORCED YOU TO:

- install apps like Tinder and establish profiles

- commence conversations with women

- choose to have sex with women you met (knowing that about half available women aged 40 plus have HSV-2)

- not demand to have mutual testing for what was of concern for you (or see their birth certificate, although why that matters I don’t know you looked them in the eye)

- not be able to choose the protection you felt appropriate.

Even all this is not the reason I have set this out. The real reason is that this hatred and fear you are carrying thinking it will destroy another person is actually destroying you.

Seriously shut the fuck up hopefully u get hit by a car today and quit bothering ppl

[WilsoInAus]

I think it’s all been said. It is simply bizarre how the truth can anger so much. 

@f*ckedOver you do not have herpes, but look at the hatred you incite, look at the stigma you rain upon the issue of HSV.

I think all you readers can see how immaturity and small mindedness leads to bigotry and hatred. Hang in there, the truth wins out.