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Dating another HSV positive - Oral Sex Risks ?

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Hi everyone,

Well part of my soul died 2 years ago when this came to me, 
I have withdrawn from my friends and family, and completely unable to try to date, flirt or anything,
I can not let myself to consider ever dating a non-infected girl, and feeling that I won't get luck to find the suitable & right hsv-2 match....

I am HSV-2 genital, frequent OB on 1st year, getting better now

I did date 1 girl which is also HSV-2 carrier,

My question/concern here :  about ORAL SEX   (me getting down on a girl),
As I am already HSV-2 infected, is it safe or OK for me to (  of course NOT during OB / tingling on the partner side):

- Oral sex on a HSV-2-G  girl ?

- Oral sex on a HSV-1-G girl ?

Also, if I ever get to date a healthy partner - also very unlikely - I understand sex will have to ALWAYS and EVER be condom-only based, but how about 

- Healthy partner providing oral sex on me ?  
- Healthy partner providing hand-job on me ? 
My feeling is that both of the above are an absolute NO-GO, but inquiring if any documented feedback,



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Yes, your HSV-2 provides great immunity against an oral infection of either type. It’s like a 1 in 50,000 shot.

Its all about risk and risk acceptance. I have sex with my HSV-2 partner, no condoms or antivirals - no holds barred!

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    • WilsoInAus
      I’m not following mate. You simply do not have herpes. Do you care if your partner has herpes? Has she tested?
    • IloveCoco
      I know it’s genitalia because I had my outbreak there and sore was swabbed as hsv1 genitalia.
    • WilsoInAus
      Hey mate, really glad you sought out the swab. Regardless of what it all is, I hope it clears and you get back to your normal self soon.
    • Toro
      I have the same symptoms as well and the only thing that worked out is Amenalief.I am taking 1 pill a day.
    • cowpoke02
      it happens ..  talking about few guys so i guessed ..  only take sone mess up or lie ..  experiment continues . i was doing great .  went backwards .. not eating is my friend ..  i get some supplies back and i will see if they working better than thing i was taking them with ...  order nuns hemp oil and products . they make best  out of california .   joint pain stuff and edible oil .  might work really well . experiment time ..  smoke real pot as well .  always hope // i know at worse i make my own oil dose up at night ..  eat clean .. i looking at it as a war and battle .. i was just healthy for while ..  so all gotta do is eat dried apricots or hemp oils ... or switch on off best products so body dint get used to it or damage from one thing to long ..  take care ..   you work in law offices ?  i could use a hand typing up simple retard few sentences  . make every thing short ..  i could pay back extra if i win ...     yes sex is reckless . i didn't a lot but made bad choices .. its reckless since it is your life . bible no joke . world history of truths of man . problem is figure it out after ya screwed . lol.  strict cause when you comet to play or entertain idea specially others they usual;ly using you or trickery bad things .  all good.  it's a war and i just enough and have few tricks all ready . get stocked up on the remedies so don't run out . lol.  live where have pot be god sent . 

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