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https://guyfawkesrevolt.news/stop-kissing-babies-that-arent-yours-grieving-parents-issue-a-heartbreaking-warning-after-their-newborn-girl-died-from-the-cold-sore-virus/?fbclid=IwAR1A-b3apoSYVl9xg1pP9a-jGjzPg5YK5edhU0gMnB2VLJA6sI7aVcTwdIk

 

another one forcing stigma, also misleading info... what i dont get is do the parents not know hsv isnt commonly tested for and they could be the ones who transmitted it

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17 hours ago, fixme1 said:

https://guyfawkesrevolt.news/stop-kissing-babies-that-arent-yours-grieving-parents-issue-a-heartbreaking-warning-after-their-newborn-girl-died-from-the-cold-sore-virus/?fbclid=IwAR1A-b3apoSYVl9xg1pP9a-jGjzPg5YK5edhU0gMnB2VLJA6sI7aVcTwdIk

 

another one forcing stigma, also misleading info... what i dont get is do the parents not know hsv isnt commonly tested for and they could be the ones who transmitted it

There is nothing wrong with that article. Babies need to be protected from herpes and parents need to know this is a risk. It adds nothing to the stigma for you.

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On 11/6/2018 at 6:23 AM, Trace67 said:

There is nothing wrong with that article. Babies need to be protected from herpes and parents need to know this is a risk. It adds nothing to the stigma for you.

Or the medical boards need to get better testing and put out better facts. Most carriers won't know they have it due to poor testing regulations. I expect any reply from you now is just a troll account trying it's hardest , and correct it isn't adding stigma to me cause unlike you the idea of hsv isn't eating me up 

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16 minutes ago, fixme1 said:

Or the medical boards need to get better testing and put out better facts. Most carriers won't know they have it due to poor testing regulations. I expect any reply from you now is just a troll account trying it's hardest , and correct it isn't adding stigma to me cause unlike you the idea of hsv isn't eating me up 

Oh mate, this is pretty unacceptable to use a baby death article to further your own delusion that you have herpes. 

Mate the idea of herpes does eat you up, why else would you post a article, whinge about testing and generally carry as though you have herpes when you have never tested positive.

Please stop and reflect how this comes across to readers.

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2 hours ago, fixme1 said:

Or the medical boards need to get better testing and put out better facts. Most carriers won't know they have it due to poor testing regulations. I expect any reply from you now is just a troll account trying it's hardest , and correct it isn't adding stigma to me cause unlike you the idea of hsv isn't eating me up 

They're just trying to educate people about the risks to a newborn baby. It's not just the parents that should be concerned. If you visit your friends with a newborn, then you need to be educated beforehand. It's not like they're saying to watch out for people with genital herpes because they will kill your baby and steal your car and screw your wife. You overreact to everything.

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15 hours ago, Trace67 said:

They're just trying to educate people about the risks to a newborn baby. It's not just the parents that should be concerned. If you visit your friends with a newborn, then you need to be educated beforehand. It's not like they're saying to watch out for people with genital herpes because they will kill your baby and steal your car and screw your wife. You overreact to everything.

 

looking at your replys on here , you over react or be negative to everything 

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2 hours ago, fixme1 said:

looking at your replys on here , you over react or be negative to everything 

You don't even have herpes, but you troll this site and talk about young babies. That is some weird shit man. Was it your life goal to hang out with people with herpes and be jealous of babies that get attention? Who the hell sits around and wishes they had herpes. That is beyond weird. You kind of come off as a perv. I'm not trying to be mean but rather make you realize that you shouldn’t be here. It's abnormal for someone without herpes to hang out here, and that’s an understatement but whatever floats your boat man…Weird.

At least lay off the little ones. They are not hurting you or anyone else.

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2 hours ago, Trace67 said:

You don't even have herpes, but you troll this site and talk about young babies. That is some weird shit man. Was it your life goal to hang out with people with herpes and be jealous of babies that get attention? Who the hell sits around and wishes they had herpes. That is beyond weird. You kind of come off as a perv. I'm not trying to be mean but rather make you realize that you shouldn’t be here. It's abnormal for someone without herpes to hang out here, and that’s an understatement but whatever floats your boat man…Weird.

 

At least lay off the little ones. They are not hurting you or anyone else.

 

You can't hide behind a username for long 

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35 minutes ago, fixme1 said:

You can't hide behind a username for long 

I'm not hiding. I have no interest in this continued fighting with you. It makes no sense that you are here wanting to fight. Let's go over what started this. You sent me a private message, and I told you to piss off that it was none of your business and that hurt your feelings, so you've been a dick ever since. News flash, Its still none of your business so get over it. I'm not sure if it was you that sent me the other messages but it was suspicious, and it stopped. You need to understand that my life is none of your business and find peace with that. Then maybe you won't feel the need to fight. I did try to have a cordial conversation with you above, but you cant do that. I suppose what you just said about hiding is a threat, so that is noted. You know where I live thanks to this site and that is noted as well with those that need to know.

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