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cp073025

Well, I just told a girl I have been seeing for a month about my Herpes, give her credit, she did talk to her doctor first, but the outcome was still not good. She decide she couldn’t deal with it. So I guess all that stuff about you can have a normal life with herpes is bullshit. I feel like a leper. 

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Roja

Hey cp073025,

I know it's hard and you have all the right to be angry. 

But see it like this: If this girl runs away because of a little thing like Herpes, she probably would have run away later. 

Did you have facts and stuff? I actually experienced that disclosure is much more positive if I could answer all the questions like "How high is the possibility to get it from you?" 

And don't feel bad. Just have in mind the high number of people with herpes who don't know it. It is just a bad stigma, but it is not bad itself! 

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RGH1119

Everything happens for a reason. Things didnt work out with her maybe because in the future you will find someone who is for you. I know it sucks and being rejected is always shitty but do you really want to be with someone who would leave over just that? I just got done talking to my doctor this morning who told me a story about a woman come in who was dating her “dream man” and before they had sex he disclosed that he had HSV-2. before they had sex she had a full STD screening and surprise, she too was HSV-2 positive unknowingly. She never had any symptoms. So she was concerned about him having it meanwhile she had it the entire time herself! So, the right person will come along when you least expect it. Don't lose hope and dont let it define who you are. I hate reading on this site how people feel like they have to lower their standards. No, you do not. People see your worth as how you view your own worth. Have confidence, know in your heart you are worth it and dont let one girl knock your confidence down. 

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On 11/5/2018 at 7:05 PM, RGH1119 said:

Everything happens for a reason. Things didnt work out with her maybe because in the future you will find someone who is for you. I know it sucks and being rejected is always shitty but do you really want to be with someone who would leave over just that? I just got done talking to my doctor this morning who told me a story about a woman come in who was dating her “dream man” and before they had sex he disclosed that he had HSV-2. before they had sex she had a full STD screening and surprise, she too was HSV-2 positive unknowingly. She never had any symptoms. So she was concerned about him having it meanwhile she had it the entire time herself! So, the right person will come along when you least expect it. Don't lose hope and dont let it define who you are. I hate reading on this site how people feel like they have to lower their standards. No, you do not. People see your worth as how you view your own worth. Have confidence, know in your heart you are worth it and dont let one girl knock your confidence down. 

What a great story! I am sure this happens quite a lot :yep:

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