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My ex fiancé had a Alcohol addiction & having herpes was the reason he had it he didn’t care about life he always said he could die & he wouldn’t care he was abusive to me I found out I was pregnant & had my 1st outbreak & I knew that he gave it to me just off the lifestyle he lived after months of knowing what I had I started having stange symptoms like he would have my lips will get dry & have white stuff on them same thing he would have if he wouldn’t wipe his mouth that was b4 I found out what I had all I want him to do is be honest & tell me the truth but he won’t what should I do ? I feel he feels guilty for giving it to me I’m 22 he almost 30 what should I do to get the truth out of him ? I’m due in 2weeks to give birth I need help to get the truth 

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Hey @Lillymae. Please note that what is most critical is what is happening to you right now. It does not matter if he has HSV-1 or HSV-2; what matters is whether you have been infected recently. What you describe in terms of lip issues is not all that suggestive of herpes.

It is important that you see your doctor immediately to have your symptoms evaluated. At the very least, a swab of symptoms in your genital region must be taken. This will inform the doctor who can then advise of next steps at this late stage.

Please ignore this guy and focus on your truth and reality with a doctor.

What symptoms are you having anywhere on your body, especially the lip and/or genital regions?

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