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Sorry in advance for the long post. In September I had sex and we used a condom but we stopped the condom broke. He was rough and I ended up having a small tear. We also had unprotected oral before. I went to the doctor and planned parenthood cause in was freaking out. I got early hiv tested and urine tested two days later all negative.  They said I needed to see my gyno about the tear. At the doctor as soon as she saw the tear said it could be herpes and swabbed it. I started crying of course.  I also got full panel of blood tests. It took forever to get my results but she said they were all negative. I'm worried that I tested too early for an accurate test since I tested 5 days after possible exposure. I continue to have symptoms. I was having itching redness and a lot of white discharge with inner thigh pain. My doctor took samples for bacteria and thought it was bv and gave me medication. That came back negative for bacteria. She keeps saying it's not a std but won't test me again till 3 months. I saw another doctor for a second opinion since I was getting shooting pains in vagina and anus and burning pain in crease of thighs. She said it was a yeast infection which it's not at all. I am now experiencing shooting pains vaginally,in my anus, my legs, and under my armpits. I don't see any sores only very small pimples that are red but don't have white in them. They keep disappearing and coming back. Doctors think they are razor bumps but haven't been shaving only trimming. I even had a transvaginal ultrasound to see if anything was abnormal it came back normal. But after the ultrasound i had pelvic pain and brownish discharge for over a week. 

I have also been experiencing itchy eyes with white discharge and bumps on the sides of my throat and small red bumps on my tongue that have white around them. I have been so anxious that I have been to so many doctors. I've been to the eye doctors 3 times and they just think I have an infection . I went to 4 doctors about my throat  and one said it was a virus and have me a z pack. The other one said it was allergies and postnasal drip and to use Zyrtec which I now take everyday. The third said they didn't see anything. The fourth finally swabbed it and waiting to hear back. I saw the dentist about my mouth sores and they said it's just canker sores and build up of bacteria on my tongue.

I even went to the dermatologist twice since I have been getting white heads on face and small red bumps on chest and arms with itching. They just think it's fungal and eczema. 

I keep googling which I know is bad. My anxiety is causing me to lose sleep.  I have started starting vitamins to increase my immune system like lysine and b12 and zinc. I'm sorry for the long post again I'm just so scared. 




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Herpes wouldn't appear for about 36-48 hours after sex.  So if you had tearing immediately afterwards it's certainly from sex.  

Also a swab would have been able to detect it.  There is no too early with a swab.  

Genital herpes also doesn't cause sensations outside of the genital (waist to knees) area.  So all the other things (mouth and armpit) I don't see how it would connect.  


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