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Leemell48

Hi everyone. I'm new to these forums. I'm not sure of my status since my possible exposure in September. I have been tested five days after exposure and it came back negative. I keep getting more and more symptoms on and off. I have been every doctor from primary, gyno, dermatologist and dentist. My anxiety is out of control that I've been prescribed ssris but scared to take it since I read that someone said it caused their outbreak. I have been having nightmares about sores covering my face and thighs. I feel terrified of my own body. Being on here has helped some with getting all of this off my chest. If anyone wants to talk I'm here. 

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Tone123

I'm with you on the medication. Don't take it just focus on your life and don't stress too much. I'm kinda of in the same situation

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Leemell48

@Tone123  It's so hard to not stress though. I try to and think it's going okay and then I get a shooting pain or my face itches somewhere new. It's frustrating 

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Lulupazoola

Leemel48, just read around on the forum and u will learn things that will help u feel better.  I was having back to back breakouts a month ago and was just a prisoner of this thing.  I joined this forum, learned some stuff to try and have been BO free since then!  I believe its a combination of things that works for me, but i got the ideas right here.

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