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About 3 months ago I was diagnosed with hsv2. My partner was also diagnosed at the same time with it. I didn’t cheat but we were both breaking out at the same time. I don’t know what to think. Every time we have sex now I get some sort of redness or sore and the breakouts continue until we stop having sex. Did she cheat and catch it, then give it to me? Idk I just really need some opinions on this, it’s kind of a messed up situation. From us having sex, could it bring out the virus? We have rough sex so their is a lot of friction

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blurneworder

One of you might have been a carrier without knowing.

It is hard to answer your question based on the information provided. 

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On 1/25/2019 at 9:31 PM, blurneworder said:

One of you might have been a carrier without knowing.

It is hard to answer your question based on the information provided. 

we broke out at the same time after we got back together. What other type of information do you need?

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blurneworder

Did you or your partner see other people between the breakup?

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On 1/30/2019 at 1:22 PM, blurneworder said:

Did you or your partner see other people between the breakup?

I didn’t and she says no but then this happened so idk. Could’ve it came out due to stress?

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blurneworder

Somebody had to have acquired it at some point in their life. 

Maybe you were checked for STDs in the past, but not checked for HSV

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On 2/5/2019 at 8:53 PM, blurneworder said:

Somebody had to have acquired it at some point in their life. 

Maybe you were checked for STDs in the past, but not checked for HSV

Yeah but now that it’s been activated, every time we’re intimate I end up breaking out now. Is that how it works? Like it’s been activated in some way

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12 minutes ago, Bodied said:

Yeah but now that it’s been activated, every time we’re intimate I end up breaking out now. Is that how it works? Like it’s been activated in some way

Some people report having an outbreak every time they have sex. 

Some also say their symptoms get better with time.

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13 hours ago, blurneworder said:

Some people report having an outbreak every time they have sex. 

Some also say their symptoms get better with time.

Ok, I just figured I would have had outbreaks when we first started having sex with one another but that was not the case. Idk it’s a finicky disease and it can be really frustrating at times

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