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Happybee
19 hours ago, Roja said:

Yes, I transmitted it once (as far as I know) to a guy's lips. It was at the very beginning (I had herpes for less than a year) and he went oral on me. I felt horrible, because I actually felt some prodromes during this time, but doctors told me there would be hardly any risk without an active lesion with liquid ¬¬

So you knew you had symptoms and let him go oral on you?you gave him hsv2 on his lips?

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Roja
5 hours ago, Happybee said:

So you knew you had symptoms and let him go oral on you?you gave him hsv2 on his lips?

I only had some nerve pain, no tingling, no lesions. It was some months after my first outbreak and as I wrote before, I believed in what doctors told me: no risk of transmission without lesions. 

Yes, I have HSV2 and transmitted it to his lips. 

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Roja
5 hours ago, Happybee said:

 

I said herpes was gross but gross and dirty are kind of similar... aee you telling me if you ever get an outbreak you dont ever think that little pus or red bumb is not gross? 

No, I actually don't. It's painful, but not gross. But that's just my opinion. 

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Roja
5 hours ago, Happybee said:

So you knew you had symptoms and let him go oral on you?you gave him hsv2 on his lips?

I mean he actually never got tested, so maybe he cheated and caught HSV1 from someone else (could be as he wasn't the most honest guy). But due to the situation I guess it must have been HSV2

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lali
17 hours ago, Happybee said:

 

I said herpes was gross but gross and dirty are kind of similar... aee you telling me if you ever get an outbreak you dont ever think that little pus or red bumb is not gross? 

Shitting is gross, peeing is gross, green and yello mucous coming down your throat when you get a cold is gross, dandruff is gross, ingrown nails are gross, plantar warts are gross, pimples are gross, cysts are gross. Should i go on?

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lali

My outbreaks are barely noticeable to be honest with you. The first few ones were gross because they got infected. But now i just get little white bumps for a day and the little sore afterwards is not even noticeable...

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