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Blue moon

I gave my bf the virus unintentionally

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Blue moon

Hi my boyfriend recently tested positive for hsv2. He was completely aware of my status from the beginning. I have never had an outbreak or noticed symptoms. I found out 6 years ago when the person I was with cheated . It came back in my blood work . So no break outs and no medicine.  Anyways my current bf is very upset and doing the blame game even tho I fully disclosed my status to him. I know he is upset and I’m trying to be emotionally supportive but I refuse to take the blame cause he was willing to take the risk. This situation is very hurtful and frustrating and i’m looking for advice on how to handle it all. Has anyone been in my bf shoes that can help shed light on how I can be helpful. ( my ex never disclosed his status to me so I found out by complete surprise whe the person he cheated with told me to get tested) 

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Blue moon

He had a swab done. No blood work. He was having an outbreak unknown to me and went to get tested. Called me afterwards , so I never even knew he was having symptoms. 

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