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I live right across the Mississippi border but work in Tennessee. I would love some support from my area and I would also offer support. I know I am not alone. I am a single mother who is very private. Out of the two men I dated over 20 years, one being my husband, Im not sure how this happened. Its has been an emotional rollercoaster since we divorce, then I found out. Talking really helps. I just learned this in November so this is brand new. If you need support like i do, lets chat. We can make it through this together.

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hi tryinghard!

i too live in northern mississippi and work in memphis! it was so nice to see someone else in this area.

okay, so july 7, 2009 i got the dreaded news that my last partner was diagnosed with herpes. my heart fell. i felt so sick. i didn't know what to do. so my story is really messed up. i have only been with two people. ugh. okay, so i have been with this guy for about 4 years. then things got bad, and we broke up. i then out of frustration slept with one of my "good friends". then a few weeks after that i got back with my boyfriend of 4 years. well the guy friend is the one who gave me herpes.

i haven't had this confirmed by a doctor yet, but i had the signs.

and sadly today i just noticed that i have a few smooth bumps around my panty line area. i am so devestated. i thought there was a slight chance i was okay considering me and that guy were together back in may. i didn't realize it takes this long for there to be an initial outbreak.

and now i am so freaked out i gave it to the person i really love.

will he leave me?

sorry for ranting. i am just losing my mind!

i really need a friend and someone i can confide in and share experiences with.

i feel so alone. i need a hug:(

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It doesnt always take that long to have an outbreak.

I contracted it on a wednesday and i had my first outbreak

on friday in the same week.

I was just diagnosed yesterday so i'm looking for people to talk to about it.

It seems like everyone is so far away, like no one around where i live has it..but thats not true..

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