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Real $lim Katie
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Hi there friends :)My name is Katie and I have been brutally embarrassed and bullied by the cold sores I get since kindergarten. I used to get them every time the seasons changed like clockwork and they would continue to affect me into my adulthood, restricting me from wanting to go to school/work/out with friends/etc.

To help empower me, I made this video parodying "7 Rings" by Ariana Grande to embody embracing your true amazingness despite your cold sore. It includes the tips that I have learned over my 23 years to zap the sore before they get worse and my roommate/bestie designed and created all the clothes featured in it. Check it-





-celery juice

-coconut oil


have helped shorten the life of my cold sore :) WHAT HELPS YOU???


Also, get out of your house and live your life!!! 1/2 people have cold sores, why do they make us feel so bad about ourselves?



Love you all




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Real $lim Katie
2 minutes ago, Quest said:

Good for you! Awesome!

thank you so much😊

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I love your energy. I can't help but be depressed and feel so alone. I hate not feeling like myself. I'm in customer service and I love talking to people but my oral outbreak is breaking my spirit. I'm even ashamed to look at my wife even though she's so supportive

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Real $lim Katie
3 hours ago, Brule said:

I love your energy. I can't help but be depressed and feel so alone. I hate not feeling like myself. I'm in customer service and I love talking to people but my oral outbreak is breaking my spirit. I'm even ashamed to look at my wife even though she's so supportive

you got this ❤️ I'm telling you, they only look worse to you because they affect your nervous system. the worse you feel, the worse they get ❤️ i know exactly how you feel because i've been there, be confident despite your sore ❤️ my go to's: CARMEX (abreva makes it worse before they get better), coconut oil, ice for the pain & valtrex. BE CONFIDENT and it'll be gone in no time :)

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You have the right attitude! I am so proud of you! Really fun video!

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Real $lim Katie
On 4/20/2019 at 5:39 PM, Quest said:

You have the right attitude! I am so proud of you! Really fun video!

thanks this really means a lot :) share it if you'd like so it can go as viral as the simplex lol

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