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chicago girl

When is it safe to have sex again?

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chicago girl

How do I know when it is safe to have sex again? My bf would like to resume activities~~with precaution of course. But I am hesitant. He gave it to me thru oral sex. He doesn't show signs 'down there'. I am afraid that if we have sex then he will get it from me. I think my outbreak is over. I am still red, but no sores.

I have a feeling that I will cry thru the first experience since finding out, since sex will never be the same for me again. I will always have that thought in the back of my mind.

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I think the general consensus is to wait at least a week after your sores have healed up. At least that is what I have read so far...

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