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I have GH, the only person I have been with since I found out is the person who gave it to me. He and I are DONE, but the fact remains, GH lingers. I met a guy...who I am in LOVE with, I mean so incredibly in love with. I dont get outbreaks often and am on once daily...I didnt tell him I had GH. So heres the problem, I got an outbreak after sex with him (i know its bad and selfish but I just couldnt bring myself to tell him, plus I had few obs before that) Now Im wondering what to do b/cuz he's number 1 a germiphobe and number 2 Im ashamed...someone write me a script and tell me what to do, please...this is killing me, I love this guy and I may have just ruined something amazing:( At this point i just want to drop off the face of the earth

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I'm sorry about your situation. Honestly, I wouldn't know how you feel because I never had sex or had that kind of relationship(although i still have hsv1). In my opinion I would just be honest and do what I felt was right. I would just tell him that I have genital herpes and give him alot of info on it. I know it might be difficult and might the relationship, but I feel that he has the right to know. Hopefully he will understand. Good Luck.

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