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So I had my first experience with telling someone I had hsv2 the other night .  He acted as if it didn’t bother him and now here lately he has been really rude to me so I’m pretty sure he will stop talking to me soon it hurt my feelings at first . Now today I’m just feeling like fck him lol . You have to be so comfortable with yourself that no one can make you feel bad with something your learning to deal with this situation literally almost took me back to day one of finding out and it’s been almost 4 months ! I have been happy lately and dealing with the situation so good I almost went back to feeling so slow and so disgusting but I didn’t let it go back to that .Moral of the story just love yourself and find someone who genuinely cares about you before you share your information with anyone everyone will not appreciate your honesty 

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Had the talk a couple of days ago.  He said it was fine and we planned to see each other this weekend.  The next day, he called and said he couldn't.  It was a tough one.  I wish he had just rejected me when I first told him.  It knocked me down pretty hard.  I'm getting back up.  Felt really sad yesterday; I really liked him.  He was nice about it and said that he felt really bad.  

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      By EssenceL25 · Posted

      I’m going to force him to get tested ! Thanks for your help ! 
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      By WilsoInAus · Posted

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      By EssenceL25 · Posted

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      By WilsoInAus · Posted

      @EssenceL25 then it is all beyond reasonable doubt that the current partner is the source. A 'perfect' fit in terms of timing, symptoms and swab. It may be though that the type is not technically known. Culture swabs are very often not typed and just assumed to be HSV-2 if taken from a genital location. If you received oral sex in the days leading into 7 March then it is 50/50 as to whether this is HSV-1 or HSV-2. You could contact your doctor and confirm if the swab was actually typed (which is a second test where fluorescent antibodies for HSV-1 and HSV-2 are added and see which one 'glows').  If that test wasn't done then you do not know type. If you have oral HSV-1 yourself (cold sores) then this will be HSV-2. Does your partner have oral HSV-1? It is somewhat strange for him not to rush and test - many people have a 'reaction' if they truly do not know their status and have concerns that you infected them etc. (not initially rational of course). This indicates he may know his status - or maybe he just isn't simply the sharpest tool in the shed!?
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      By EssenceL25 · Posted

      I had flu like symptoms and ulcers on my vagina . They did a culture and I tested positive for hsv2. I asked my partner to get tested he agreed but I’m not sure if he will cause he hasn’t said anything else about it. 
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