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MissRosebud

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MissRosebud

Hi to everyone. I had no idea this site exsist untill today. Looking for info and advice. So I have known this guy for a couple months..both like to dance and have all the right chemistry. But recently somehow we ended up making out on the dance floor (drunk of coarse). I didn't have any sores on my mouth but of coarse I am so afraid that I might have passed him something. Cause I frequently get sores on the outside of my lips. I don't believe I had any then..no signs. So again last night we made out forever and I thought I felt a blister on the inside of his lip...and I am freaking out! What if? Could it be true? If so I am so sad and scared! We like eachother a lot but I don't know how to say it to him! What should I do? By the way, Thanks to those who care!

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Claudia

My advice is to know your facts. Be clear. His response could be to back off or to move forward with or without boundaries. I prepare myself to accept whatever response I get. If the response is that a partner wants to be intimate with me, however, I get to then decide if I am satisfied in a relationship with any boundaries they might propose.

A couple last things:

Know that you can infect him genitally as well during oral sex even when you don't have an outbreak.

Also, I recommend asing clear questions about his own status in terms of STDs for the sake of your own health.

Be well,

Claudia

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