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Hi, I am in a state of freaking out currently because around 2 days ago a red cut formed on my gums, randomly. Then the next day it began to become sore. I have been sexually active in the past but I have never had a cold sore. Please can someone help if this is a canker or herpes sore. I'm terrified
First thankyou so much for taking the time to read/reply. I could use your help so badly.
I had sex unprotected one year ago. A week afterwards I had some itching of the foreskin so went to the doctor, and was advised it was Balanitis. I got some cream and it went away within a few days. Since then I had a full STI panel of Chlamydia, Gonhorrea, Syphilis, HIV, and Hepatitis - all negative. Last week I had sex with someone new. She was a virgin, and we used a condom. Now since then, for the last 6 days I have had burning down my urethra - not while peeing, but just in general. I went to the doctor and they advised that it could be more Balanitis, so I got more cream. However, the woman I slept with now has flu, enlarged lymph node in neck, and a sore throat. I have also noticed these tiny tiny bumps or marks near the opening of my penis (pictured). I am not sure if I have always had them or if I'm just seeing them now.
Would these show a year afterwards, right when I have sex again (and with a virgin, with a condom)? Are my symptoms in line with Herpes?
Thanks for your advice, there's not much info on the internet.
I was diagnosed with ghsv-1 about 6 years ago and id like to share my exprience with you in the hopes that you may see the light at the end of the tunnel.
When i was given my diagnosis i had only recently moved to a new town, come out to my family and stsrted dating. I was basically at the happiest point in my life and boy did that take a quick turn.
I had every awful symptom under the sun the worst being intense nerve pain in my thighs and constant pins and needles in my hands and feet for almost 2 years. I was convinced my dating life was over and for the first time in my life developed severe anxiety. I was convinced i had some other life threatening disease that the doctors hadnt picked up went through a plethora of blood test, scans and dr appointnents. Even my Gp admitted my immune system was having a severe reaction to the virus. I had swollen lymph nodes in my chest, armpits and groin and had to sleep with an ice pack many nights.
However, my turning point was when i decided i needed to get back out there and start dating again. I was having few outbreaks and regularly taking antivirals it was mainly the pain stopping me. My dr eventually prescribed me pregabalin which stopped most of my pain and i started to feel like myself again.
I started dating... and i dreaded that conversation...telling someone else what i had. But obviously being the right thing to do i always told my partner before any physical activity. Over the following two years i dated about 5 people. Not one had a negative reaction to my honesty. Infact it was often the opposite.. and all of those relationships ended for reasons other than me having this virus.
I have now been in a relationship for almost 2 years with an amazing person and barely ever have those symptoms anymore. I keep valacyclovir and pregabalin handy just incase but its so rare i need them that i probably fill one prescription a year.
I used this forum daily for those first couple of years and never saw enough accounts from people once they got through that tough patch. I promised myself thst if i felt better one day id post ky experience. I know everybodys experience is different with the virus but i hope that this helps at least a couple of people see that you can and will one day feel ok, adjust to living with the virus and eventually feel normal again.
Please join us Sept 1 @ 8PM PT / 9PM MT / 10PM CT / 11PM ET for a live Q&A session with national expert, nurse practitioner Terri Warren, RN, ANP. More details about the event are in the link below, where you may also post your questions ahead of time. https://www.reddit.com/r/HerpesCureResearch/comments/pbdbfw/qa_with_terri_warren_rn_anp_september_1st_2021/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3
Warren has been in practice for over 20 years. She specializes in the Herpes Simplex Virus (HSV) and has served as principal investigator or sub-investigator on more than 120 clinical trials evaluating testing mechanisms for STIs, efficacy for experimental Herpes vaccines, and pharmacologic interventions for numerous human infections, primarily HSV.
Had unprotected sex like 2-3 months ago. For a long time nothing came up. The I saw bumps appear between my thighs, thought it was razor bumps. Then my skin started shedding a lot, kinda like when kids cover their hand in glue and peel it off if that makes sense. I scratched/picked at some of them (and those were the only ones that “popped” and they were like open sores. Now they just go through this cycle of scabbing the the scab gets peeled off by my clothes or whatever and it starts all over. They don’t hurt, it tingled here or there, and I wouldn’t say it’s itchy but I’ve had the urge to scratch around it recently but I wouldn’t say it was often. And something similar formed on my elbow. I’m trying to get in to get tested ASAP but it’s hard. Any help? Input?