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Hey @Mard3 the most important ingredient to reducing transmission chances is knowledge of your infection. Where the infected person is using this knowledge to avoid sexual activity during actual and potential outbreaks, then transmission chances are quite low indeed.

In these circumstances, female to male transmission is about a 4% chance over a whole year of sex. Hence even over three years the chance is still quite low. It is lower still if condoms are used for example and if you are taking antivirals.

Of discordant couples, about half will go their whole married lives together without transmitting at all!!

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On 4/22/2021 at 3:56 PM, Mard3 said:

I have dated the same guy for 3 years and some how he has not gotten it. I'm wondering how that is possible? 

Do you get frequent OB's? Symptoms? Does sex trigger any of the above? If not then you are fortunate and possibly will never pass it or if you do, maybe they will remain asymptomatic

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9 hours ago, Mard3 said:

He's been tested and everything doesn't have it for some reason I'm not sure how that works.

This is because it isn't girls' germs! Every sexual episode has only a probability of transmission, one that looks like 1 in 2,500 or more. Remember 50% of discordant couples that go the distance in their marriage do not pass HSV-2 to the other partner. 

The issue is that you need to be shedding volumes at the exact moment of sex and for those viral particles to rub into skin and take hold of nerve endings.  

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On 5/26/2021 at 4:14 PM, Mard3 said:

He's been tested and everything doesn't have it for some reason I'm not sure how that works.

But do you get OB's or symptoms?

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On 8/8/2021 at 9:14 PM, justanothersufferer said:

I use to have sex every day for a year and a half till I got it. Maybe it frequency?

I think frequency plays a roll for sure! I know that if I have friction I will probably get an OB even if it's not a visible one there would be one so if I had sex every day and rough sex too he would get it pretty quickly! Did you get bad symptoms when you got diagnosed? I'm interested in how men suffer when they get it. 

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