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chevyMisty

Just wanted everyone to know I miscarried today so yeah.

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tfir

Well, let's see. You go off on people who are trying to help you, you have major attitude, and your response to a miscarriage is "so yeah".

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chevyMisty

I was going off on people for telling me the same thing over and over and over when I already knew it. I was tired of that. And I don't know what to say about the so yeah. It's just how I am. I am not really all that messed up. I am trying to deal with a lot of things at once. Lets see in five months I have gotten married, gotten herpes, gotten three outbreaks, became pregnant and then miscarried, on top of that there have been insurance issues. So yeah actually maybe I am messed up. But I don't think most people can blame me. Do you know what that does your mind and body? I doubt it.

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Gonzales

:( :( :(

I'm sorry about your loss. Damn that's tough. Hope you and your husband can support each other and get passed this, I really do.

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catiesmom

I'm so sorry. Things like this have a tendency to weigh on your mind for a long time to come. I hope you're able to put this behind you some day, and look forward to more children in the future. Please let us know how you're doing.

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helied2me

So sorry to hear about your miscarriage chevy, Maybe it was all the stress you've been dealing with lately. Give your body and mind time to recover. When your body adjusts to the hsv and the insurance isn't an issue, being pregnant won't weigh on you so heavily.

Here's hoping the next time will be much more enjoyable for both of you.

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chevyMisty

thanks guys. You know. I am ok with this. Maybe I really am very messed up. I didn't even cry when they told me it happened. I tired up a little here and a little there yesterday but I never cried. I don't even feel like crying. I know it wasn't my fault. It happened to soon to be my fault, So It just wasn't meant to be. *shrugs* it's sad and I wish it hadn't happened, but I think my religion plays a huge role in my reaction. We believe that one day we will get to raise those children that were lost before they were born. And those under the age of eight that have died will automatically go to the celestial kingdom to live with Heavenly Father and that's helped a lot. So Maybe I am messed up. Maybe I'm not. But thank you for your condolences.

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seashell

chevy,

I am so sorry hun. My heart goes out to you. I had a miscarriage as well. You're not alone. I really feel for you.

Hugs,

Seashell

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chevyMisty

thanks. All the support and condolences and stuff is great. I am sorry if I have been a pain...I really don't mean to be...most of the time anyway.

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OhmyGosh

You haven't been a pain...no way!! Sometimes life sucks and to keep ourselves sane we need to vent our emotions and frustrations!! I am sorry you are going through such a rough time...things will get better life isn't always horrible. I am sorry for your loss...try to stay strong and keep your head up!!

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seashell

You are not a pain. No apologies needed. Vent away any time. ~hugs~

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