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About 3and a half months ago in october I had sex with this girl that I had just met, I made sure to use a condom cause you never know, right.

However she did give me oral sex and I didnt use a condom when she did that.

Now this past week something appeared on the head of my penis. Needless to say I am worried, and im too scared to go to the doctor.

Could she have given me something, I mean if she gave me somthing then it must have been during the oral right, but she didnt have anything on her lips or her mouth i didnt see any blisters or anything. At least nothing that I could see that is. But if she did have somthing on her mouth then wouldnt it have transferred to my mouth also since I kissed her, she kissed other parts of my body also and i dont have nothing there.

anyhelp please.

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Yes she could have given you something orally - she may not even know - can't judge without knowing what "something" on your penis is - but if you think it may be HSV - get to the doc to have it checked, then talk to the girl if it is HSV.

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ORAL TRANSMISSION.

Listen carefully. If the women has cold sores on her lips but no symptoms , she is still infectious (ie. asymptomatic shedding). If she sucks your cock you will get genital herpes on your penis. Simple as that.

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